Falling in Love the Jane Austen Way
A Journey Through Romance, Regency, and Refined Celebration
Few names in literature evoke the charm, wit, and romance of a bygone era quite like Jane Austen. Born in 1775, Austen has captured readers’ hearts for over two centuries with her sharp observations of society, her spirited heroines, and her timeless tales of love and courtship. But her influence reaches far beyond the page. Today, Austen’s world is lovingly recreated in themed weddings, Regency-style dances, period fashion, and more — allowing fans to step into the elegance and romance of her era.
Jane Austen: The Woman Behind the Words
Jane Austen was born into a large, close-knit family in Hampshire, England. Despite living a relatively quiet life, her keen social observations and dry humor brought the English gentry vividly to life in novels like Pride and Prejudice, Sense and Sensibility, and Emma. Her works often explore the constraints of gender and class in the early 19th century, balanced by the hope of love and personal growth.
Though Austen never married, her stories remain some of the most enduring love stories in literary history. Her heroines are intelligent, independent, and emotionally complex — a reflection of Austen herself.
The Regency Era: Grace, Gowns, and Grand Balls
The "Jane Austen era" refers to the British Regency period (1811–1820), though Austen’s life spanned the late Georgian period as well. It was a time marked by refinement in art, literature, fashion, and manners — but also by rigid social rules and stark class divisions.
In Austen’s novels, we get a glimpse of the era’s drawing rooms, garden walks, and glittering assemblies. Balls were key social events where music, dancing, and flirtation mingled under the rules of decorum. Courtship was a delicate dance of propriety and subtlety — and every glance or touch carried meaning.
Regency Fashion: Elegance in Simplicity
The fashion of Austen’s time was a breath of fresh air after the excesses of the 18th century. Women wore high-waisted empire dresses made of flowing muslin, often in soft pastels or white. Hair was styled in natural curls or elegant updos, sometimes adorned with ribbons or feathers.
Men’s fashion featured tailored coats, cravats, breeches or trousers, and boots — a dashing ensemble that modern Austen fans still swoon over. This classic and flattering aesthetic remains popular for historical reenactments, themed events, and even weddings.
Jane Austen Weddings: Romance Reimagined
It’s no surprise that Jane Austen–themed weddings have become popular for couples seeking timeless romance with a literary twist. These weddings often take place at historic estates or countryside venues reminiscent of Austen’s settings. Think long banquet tables under chandeliers, string quartets playing period music, and bridal gowns inspired by Regency silhouettes.
Guests might be invited to dress in period attire, enjoy English garden parties, or even participate in traditional dances like the quadrille or the reel. The result is a celebration filled with grace, nostalgia, and an air of refined enchantment.
The historic Highgate Manor serves as a perfect venue for a Jane Austen themed wedding - with it’s gorgeous parlors, adorable gazebo, chandeliers, and historic ballroom. To book your wedding, check out our packages here.
Dancing Through Time: Jane Austen Balls
Across the world, Jane Austen societies and historical dance groups host Regency balls that transport attendees straight into Pemberley. These events often include dance instruction, live music, afternoon tea, and, of course, immersive period dress. For fans of Austen and lovers of history alike, these gatherings offer a magical glimpse into another time — one where every dance might just lead to love.
We at The Highgate Manor host period-style ballroom dances as well. Think themes like Jane Austen, Bridgerton, The Gilded Age, and more. To stay up-to-date on our events, subscribe to our newsletter here on our event page.
Why We’re Still Obsessed With Jane
Jane Austen's enduring appeal lies in her understanding of human nature, her biting wit, and her belief in love that grows from mutual respect. Her stories invite us to examine our own values, to embrace vulnerability, and to delight in both intellect and romance. In an age of digital distractions, there’s something deeply refreshing about slowing down and stepping into her world — a world of handwritten letters, candlelit balls, and love found in the unlikeliest of places.
Whether you're planning a wedding, attending a ball, or simply re-reading Persuasion for the tenth time, celebrating Jane Austen is a celebration of love, elegance, and timeless storytelling.
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